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Help my birthday is comming up!

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  • Help my birthday is comming up!

    My birthday is next week and my parents are annoyed that I don't know what I want for a present (yes that's right they are annoyed that I don't desire anything new)
    The things I do want are too expensive to ask someone else to buy for me. I am not gonna ask someone for a €300,- necklace or a new car.

    The thing is when I make a list nobody actually buys anything that is on the list. When I don't have a list everyone complains that I don't have a list. In the end I end up with gifts that I don't like while pretending that I do every year. This year I don't really look forward to my birthday at all.

  • #2
    I don't think I have an advice for you I am afraid.

    But I kind of understand your frustration. My family is the same way. They use a wishlist as inspiration. I end up with things that are similar to what is in my list but not similar in the way I liked the item. So instead of the movie I wanted, I get the video game (not really into video games and it was not the type of game I am good at or enjoy); instead of the v neck sweater in the color I liked, I get a turtleneck in a different color.

    They seem to want everyone to collect something - we fall back on that. This person gets tiki mugs or shirts, this person gets things related to tea or different chai tea, that person gets something with bugs on it, ... I used to get lots of things with cats on them. So maybe if you like something a lot they could shop for things related to that? Then you don't have to fill out a wishlist and they don't have to pretend that it isn't the 'hunt for the perfect present' (if they weren't 'hunting' they would get you exactly what was on your list...).

    I started putting books that looked interesting on my wishlist. Trying for subjects I liked or am interested in - then when I get something different, it might still interest me. (But not actually authors I read because then I might get books I already have.) Ones I am really not interested in reading go into the local little library or to a thrift store. (I still do get things with cats on them...)


    • #3
      Oh yeah gifting the right thing is sometimes difficult, but where I live it's quite common to gift vouchers/giftcards or even money. Even though some might think it's not personal, it is a great gift and you never fail.
      For example in the big shopping centers they have joint giftcards one can spend in any shop in tht shopping center. If you want electronics, shoes, clothes, makeup, books, toys, jewelry, etc.. One can use just the giftcard or add whatever amount on top and buy anything he or she needs.
      If we know a certain friend is saving money for some special expensive holiday, we collect money and gift them that, it's not covering even half of the amount, but we know it will help a friend get closer to the needed expense.
      I rather see I'm being gifted money or giftcards than something I don't need, at least I can buy myself a new pair of shoes and exactly the ones I want, so when I'm asked what I want (and I mostly have no idea) I just tell them »giftcard« :)