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Im in Denial in my grief. TW.

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  • Im in Denial in my grief. TW.

    I always knew that my partner had issues but for the life of me, I never thought I'd be here, at least not so soon. I didn't think our time together would be so short, that his life would be cut so soon before we even got to get together for a second time. *cry*

    I still can't believe that he is gone. I am so angry with the hospital for letting him go after an attempt, giving him the access to try again. So so angry! At him, the hospital. Him for thinking that this was best for me. How could he be so selfish!? HOW? Don't I have a say in these things, too? I was his girlfriend, his lover, his friend. Didn't what I want matter? Now it will never matter, for he's gone. Dead. Hes dead. I can't believe it though.

    God, it hurts so much. How do I even begin to grieve this? I am in so much pain. Never have I ever felt this much all at once.

    Why did he have to go and do this? Why did he have to abandon me? We were both having tough times. WHY couldnt he just stick it through with me; Was i not good enough? I can't help but want to join him. God. It hurts so much. :(

    It was only five months, but that's almost half a year and It felt like forever.

    Why do you have to be dead? *cry*

  • #2
    Oh my I am so sorry. What happened. I lost my husband of 34 years 6 years ago The grieving will be there but will get easier. Hugs my dear

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    • #3
      Originally posted by candy_cane View Post
      Oh my I am so sorry. What happened. I lost my husband of 34 years 6 years ago The grieving will be there but will get easier. Hugs my dear
      Thank you *hug* hurts so much

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      • #4
        So sorry this happened to you. I know right now you cannot see beyond your grief but please do not give up. Remember the good moments. You are loved.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by sterlingchic View Post
          So sorry this happened to you. I know right now you cannot see beyond your grief but please do not give up. Remember the good moments. You are loved.
          Ty *cry* hurts a lot.

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          • #6
            Oh! Ash I'm soo sorry!! -gives you a big huge- <3<3 you poor thing, I can't imagine what your going through. Take it one day at a time, it'll probably never stop hurting but it'll get better I'm sure!

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            • #7
              Originally posted by nixiefae View Post
              Oh! Ash I'm soo sorry!! -gives you a big huge- <3<3 you poor thing, I can't imagine what your going through. Take it one day at a time, it'll probably never stop hurting but it'll get better I'm sure!
              Thank you :(

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              • #8
                So sorry for your loss I just lost my mom in June

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                • #9
                  SO SORRY FOR WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU ,I KNOW IT'S SO HARD BUT THE DAYS MONTHES WILL BE RUNNING AND YOU WILL REMEMBER JUST THE GOOD MEMORIES, PLEASE REMEMBER TO BE STRONG JUST FOR HIM CUZ HE IS FEELING OF YOU ,TAKE CARE !

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                  • #10
                    So sorry for your loss. Cherish your memories of him.. Things are hard now but it will get easier to bear.

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                    • #11
                      Speaking as a prior attempt survivor, it is far too easy to convince emergency room physicians that you're not going to harm yourself again. Three months after my first attempt, I was back in the emergency room for another, and they still let me go in the morning with the 'promise' that I wasn't a danger to myself any more. And yet, I find it hard to advocate for mandatory observation periods, so I guess I don't know what sort of resolution to this issue I can suggest.

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                      • #12
                        I miss him so much

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