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Posted 02-11-2012 at 10:52 PM by itsmik3y

I dont know if anybody knows this, but i have VERY low self esteem. I hate looking at myself, i hate mirrors, i hate taking pictures, i hate anything that has to do with my looks. I think i'm ugly, and honestly Fugly. But everyone always said
"omg your cute"
"Your so adorable"
"your eyes are amazing"
my boyfriend even says
"your the best looking guy ive ever been with"
So i thought to myself,
"maybe im just wrong about how i think i look."
So i decided to put myself on tumblr and see how many notes i get.
Well the results...
2.
then i thought,
It has to be society and the way america defines "Attractive"
everybody finds things like this attractive...


Chiseled Face, Juicy Lips, Piercing Eyes, Short Hair.
Thats what america has proven is "attractive" for a guy.
and i know.
IM NONE OF THAT.
i dont have any of those qualities.
so there for,
in americas eyes.
im ugly.
hence why the way i feel about myself is negative.
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    madame_x's Avatar
    Not everyone finds that attractive, in fact all of those pictures, the guys aren't that great looking (actually they look terrible). You aren't ugly, especially not fugly. Don't think of yourself in that way. ♥

    Americans and they way they see and define "beauty" and what is "pretty" is wayyyy off. Don't think that you have to look or sound a certain way.
    Posted 02-11-2012 at 10:56 PM by madame_x madame_x is offline
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    Quote:
    Originally Posted by madame_x View Comment
    Not everyone finds that attractive, in fact all of those pictures, the guys aren't that great looking (actually they look terrible). You aren't ugly, especially not fugly. Don't think of yourself in that way. ♥

    Americans and they way they see and define "beauty" and what is "pretty" is wayyyy off. Don't think that you have to look or sound a certain way.
    i know i dont have to look a certain way.
    but i just wish i was considered "attractive" in the american eye.
    and its sad how "attractive" is in America.
    Posted 02-11-2012 at 11:00 PM by itsmik3y itsmik3y is offline
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    Honesty, I think you are very attractive. I know how you feel though. I feel like that quite often actually. Don't buy into all the Tumblr stuff. 2 notes isn't bad because, quite honestly, at the pace tumblr goes at- it is super easy to miss things. And with those kids in the pics getting all the notes..well it's because they are "tumblr mainstream"- I didn't even know who they were for the longest time. I don't even think they are that good looking. Don't let this one thing get to you. <3
    Posted 02-11-2012 at 11:34 PM by xKPandCo xKPandCo is offline
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    Honesty, I think you are very attractive. I know how you feel though. I feel like that quite often actually. Don't buy into all the Tumblr stuff. 2 notes isn't bad because, quite honestly, at the pace tumblr goes at- it is super easy to miss things. And with those kids in the pics getting all the notes..well it's because they are "tumblr mainstream"- I didn't even know who they were for the longest time. I don't even think they are that good looking. Don't let this one thing get to you. <3
    I don't even know who the guys in the pictures are.
    Posted 02-11-2012 at 11:48 PM by madame_x madame_x is offline
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    Originally Posted by itsmik3y View Comment
    i know i dont have to look a certain way.
    but i just wish i was considered "attractive" in the american eye.
    and its sad how "attractive" is in America.
    Sadly you have to be plastic to be attractive to most people. And you are attractive to more people then you think.
    Posted 02-11-2012 at 11:50 PM by madame_x madame_x is offline
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    to be honest, I think you're cute, that's what I thought when I saw your video
    Posted 02-11-2012 at 11:55 PM by hidingbutterflies hidingbutterflies is offline
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    I don't find any of those guys attractive, beauty comes from inside. who cares if "america" thinks you're attractive. once you can accept it and think it , others will too. I went thro the i'm so ugly , and fugly time, but eventually I believed I am beautiful and who gives a crap if someone disagrees, they arnt stuck in my body. anywho the moral of the story is that i finally accepted myself and good things happened :]
    Posted 02-12-2012 at 02:08 AM by definingd11 definingd11 is offline
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    I don't even know who the guys in the pictures are.
    Haha, once you're on tumblr enough- you'll find out. (One Direction..right?)
    Posted 02-12-2012 at 03:44 AM by xKPandCo xKPandCo is offline
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    Haha, once you're on tumblr enough- you'll find out. (One Direction..right?)
    yeah.
    one direction. francisco something. and then Jake
    Posted 02-12-2012 at 11:03 AM by itsmik3y itsmik3y is offline
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    Confidence is attractive. Personality is attractive. You need to believe in yourself before you will believe other people do actually believe in you
    Posted 02-12-2012 at 11:11 AM by snow snow is offline
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    Originally Posted by xKPandCo View Comment
    Haha, once you're on tumblr enough- you'll find out. (One Direction..right?)
    I'm almost always on Tumblr and still didn't know. rofl
    Posted 02-12-2012 at 11:35 AM by madame_x madame_x is offline
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    So are you considered unattractive in Japan, Italy, Brazil, France, Mexico.....Singapore, Saudi Arabia or....Denmark.........Madagascar..........New Zealand, Solomon Islands, anywhere in Canada.................The Congo too?
    Posted 03-14-2012 at 10:35 AM by draguta draguta is offline
    Updated 03-14-2012 at 10:46 AM by draguta
 

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